Hey everyone! I have a question. I have the 8100 with T-mobile as my carrier. I tried to add a friend on to my contacts list on the Blacberry Messenger and it went as far as to add them as 'pending'. So I waited a couple of days and it was still at that status. When I called my friend to see what was up he said that he had never gotten an invite. Does anybody know what iI am doing wrong? I have unlimited sms and mms on the phone but have yet to add on email to my account. Could that be a reason why? Thanks so much!

make sure your friend has blackberry messenger also since it sends him a request through blackberry messenger telling him that you want to add him to your contact list.

the other person needs a blackberry with an email address to do this.